Today was a long day. I was probably more stressed this morning than I had been in a long time. It was the day of the big “visit” thing at work. My role was to lead a group of my superiors around my AOR covering information that they are probably already well aware of. My allotted time was over an hour. Over an hour! I thought I was going to have a heart attack. My previous position required no such presentations. It has been 7 years since I had to be on like that.

But I did it. My boss said I did it well. That made me feel good. Other aspects of the event did not make me feel good. A little unsure actually. But I am still employed. So I guess that’s something. Heh.

On my way home I figured I’d pick up dinner. Richard had been saying that he’s tired of Mexican, but really it’s all I know. I always feel like Mexican… So I stopped for some Mexican takeout near my workplace. As I was leaving the place with my yummy meal in tow I spied a flower shop. I decided to buy my man a rose. No reason. His birthday has passed. Today wasn’t really special. It was just because. I drove home with a smile.

I don’t know what I expected. All I know is that I was very excited for Richard to come home so I could give him the flower. When he finally arrived his reaction totally disappointed me. Like I said, I don’t know what I expected. Did I think he’d tear up? Or fall into my arms in a passionate embrace? Not really. But I thought there’d at least be a moment. You know, a moment.. I got nothing like that. A peck and a thank you. That was all. Then he propped it up in a corner and changed his clothes.

Huh. I think he appreciated the dinner more, even though he’s “tired of Mexican”.

Is it tomorrow yet? I am done with today. 

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daniel · late evening · 5 comments · ping it

I think Richard may have had too much fun at the Lips. I am almost glad I sat that one out… Those bitches sent him home all tipsy with lipstick on his collar (and face) and smelling of another woman’s perfume.

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daniel · mid-afternoon · say it · ping it

In case you didn’t know, it’s my man’s birthday today. Happy Birthday Richard!!

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daniel · early evening · 3 comments · ping it

Good lawd! I am getting so late in my internet endeavors lately! What is it? Midnight? This “visit” preparation at work has me exhausted! Why is it when I am exhausted I also (ironically) can’t sleep? I am a freak of nature.

Anyhoo, I have been madly preparing for Richard’s birthday celebration this weekend. We have a gathering with the Idol boys on Friday (tomorrow, well later today..) but I am still unsure who’s coming. I know of one for sure. I have a firm maybe on another. Then there was the one who said yeah, but hasn’t responded to the change of venue that I sent out today. (Turn’s out I used an obscure email account for that one on accident. I may be in the ‘junk’ file. Stupid, stupid me!) Then we have the no-response folks. Could be a very intimate celebration. “Very exclusive” is of course the term I will use. At least I am a firm believer in celebrating a “Birthday Week”, there is more to come. I have something planned for just us on Saturday and his work peeps got Sunday covered. So there you go. 90 percent more things happening than last year. All should be good.

**** OMG! The internet is being a bitch tonight! I was just knocked off line. I had to quit all apps (losing my time stamp on this post, dammit! So much for daily posting..)! I even had a facking email going. Spooty internet! I had to restart and log back in just to type this last bit…

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daniel · the wee hours · say it · ping it

This is dedicated to that special someone in my life that tries to recycle everything.

Some people say they don’t recycle because the rules are too confusing. Other people think that recycling is too much work. The truth is, recycling is as easy as trashing, but so much more responsible. That is why the City has shortened and simplified the guidelines for curbside recycling. Simply empty out the excess product from acceptable items and place them in the blue bin. Not sure what items are recyclable?

Interestingly enough, you shouldn’t recycle dry cleaning hangers either. Maybe your dry cleaner will take them back?

Anyway, anonymous person in my life that over recycles, I hope this helps you break the habit.

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daniel · mid-morning · 1 comment · ping it

Today I did something really bad. I turned on the forbidden air conditioner. Some of you may know that Richard hates the air conditioning. “It’s too expensive!” He says, or “It won’t stay cool!” Blah blah blah… All I know is that being greeted by a home that is stifling hot is not a way I like to end my day, and after more than a week of dealing with it I snapped. I vacuumed my way upstairs (like I do) to the thermostat and switched it on. I didn’t even think about it actually, until I realized I should make sure that all the windows were closed. Heh. It’s down to a delicious 82 degrees in here!

The best part was when Richard got home. He didn’t wilt or get bitchy like we usually do lately. In fact he became quite animated and chipper! I tried to attribute it to the AC but he denied it. Liar! With his tall tale about some sugar he ate making him hyper…

Whatever. All I know is that I am feeling cool, sipping a glass of wine, and got my feet on my foot massager under the desk. Life is good.

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daniel · mid-afternoon · 1 comment · ping it